The following quote was taken from the website of Bible Baptist Church in Stillwater, OK: stillchurch.com. It provides a little bit of an idea of what the culture is trying to tell us about men compared to what God wants for men.
The rumor that masculine men hate church isn’t entirely true. Come discover an environment where plenty of real men still believe God expects them to step up and provide strong, loving leadership in the church and in their families.
Look inside most churches today and one of the most notable vacancies is men. In particular, masculine men. We want you to know that’s not true everywhere… We still believe men are expected to provide strong leadership within the church and their homes. Generations of that kind of leadership is one secret to American’s greatness. Feminism would have you think that masculinity demeans the woman, yet biblical masculinity is humble and compassionate and values a lady more than life itself… Come see a revival of masculinity.